Sad News, My Mom Passed Away
Posted 14 April 2007 - 01:45 AM
For a while I didn't feel like coming here. This used to be my morning ritual - I get up early, so I'd get on the computer in the mornings before Mom woke up, then she could have it later in the day. I was just too sad to be here for a while, because it was the "normal" thing to do, and nothing is normal anymore. It's like, for a while, having Scleroderma was the biggest thing in my life. Then mom died, and Scleroderma didn't matter anymore, I wasn't even thinking about it. Now I'm back to thinking about it again I guess.
Anyway it's nice to be back - I missed you all.
Posted 14 April 2007 - 02:06 AM
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. I can only imagine what a shocker that must have been for you and your husband and how empty the house must feel now. Please know that you are in my thoughts. I am glad that you are back posting....we missed you!
Posted 14 April 2007 - 02:43 AM
Posted 14 April 2007 - 03:14 AM
I'm very sorry to hear you mom passed away. My thoughts and sympathies are with you and your family.
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Posted 14 April 2007 - 03:18 AM
I am sorry to hear about your Mom's passing and know you must be very sad at losing her, especially so suddenly. It really does put things in perspective. I'm glad you're feeling better and are back to posting. My thoughts are with you.
Posted 14 April 2007 - 04:24 AM
So sorry to hear your sad news. Keep your family close in your time of sadness.
Lean on each other. And you can lean on us too.
May your happy memories of time with your mom fill the hole in your heart.
Posted 14 April 2007 - 07:27 AM
I was so sorry to read of your mother's sudden death. She was young. I know that you must really miss her. I lost my dad in the fall and it was really hard. It was a blessing because he had been so ill. For you to have it happen so unexpectedly makes it a lot harder. I will have you and your family in my thoughts.
Posted 14 April 2007 - 07:29 AM
Lots of virtual hugs being sent to you right now. I'm so sorry to hear about your mother. She was young and since she hadn't complained about anything, I'm sure it was quite a shock. I'm glad to see you back on the board. You know you can get lots of emotional support here. My thoughts and sympathies.
I hope you can feel our hugs,
Posted 14 April 2007 - 08:31 AM
Oh dear, I am really sorry that your Mom has passed away. I hope you can be around your family right now and find some peace.
Just let yourself cry, and come to the board if you need some release.
Posted 14 April 2007 - 08:32 AM
I'm really sorry to hear about your mom. I know how earth shattering that can be. I lost my mother to cancer at a young again of 59. I also lost my dad to cancer, he died when he was only 49. My heart goes out to you. I know how hard it is to deal with this type of loss and I also know how long it can take to heal.....if you ever really do.
Glad to see you back, don't push yourself however.
Posted 14 April 2007 - 08:50 AM
I am so sorry. My thoughts will be with you.
Posted 14 April 2007 - 09:15 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom. You and your family will be in my thoughts...
Posted 14 April 2007 - 10:23 AM
Posted 14 April 2007 - 10:26 AM
I am sorry for your loss. Glad though that you decided to come back and join us. Hopefully, some of our words will give you the needed strength you need each day to pick up the pieces and enjoy everything around you that was your mothers. Special moments or gifts to each other throughout the years. Sheryl
Posted 14 April 2007 - 11:15 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. You can't replace a mother, and we tend to think they will always be there, as they have been since we were born. So it's a great shock when this sort of thing happens.
As others have said, remember the happy times you shared, and eventually the pain will lessen a little, but you will never forget her.
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Posted 14 April 2007 - 11:26 AM
Posted 14 April 2007 - 12:16 PM
I am so sorry to hear about your mother passing away.
Please know we are always thinking of you, and send you hugs of love and support right now.
Posted 14 April 2007 - 02:52 PM
I'm so sorry to hear of your mothers sudden passing. I lost my mum when I was 19 years old and am still not over it 19 years later.
Take care and know that you are in my thoughts and try and take one day at time and you will get through this.
Posted 14 April 2007 - 04:27 PM
My thoughts are with you and your family. I'm so sorry that you've lost your mom at such a young age and so unexpectedly. May you find comfort in your memories...I will be thinking of you.
Posted 15 April 2007 - 01:46 AM