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#1 jaxs


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Posted 03 January 2008 - 10:37 AM

i woke up yesterday feeling very positive for the new year, I then got news that my smear I had befor holiday was abnormal and I need to go and have a examination at the colopscopy clinc, I was gutted but then I got a phone call to tell my very dear friend had past away in the morning (she had bone cancer)i am feeling devestated ,today I got up and couldn't walk for some reason I have a very sore back and hip,i have opened a bottle of wine and im chilling trying to stay positive,at the moment I just needed to vent, and hope u guys had a happy start to this new year hugs jaxsxx
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Posted 03 January 2008 - 12:22 PM

Sorry to hear you are having a bad day and sorry for the loss of your friend.

I hope you get to feel better. I can relate to the back and hip pain as that has just started for me the last 3 days and I have never had hip pain before but every bone, joint and muscle seems to hurt so I don't know if the weather has something to do with it or if it's the disease.

Try to stay positive and warm hugs from Minnesota.


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Posted 03 January 2008 - 12:52 PM

jaxxs just wanted to say I am thinking of you hope things look up soon

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Posted 03 January 2008 - 02:09 PM

Hi Jaxs

Sorry to hear you had such an awful day. Thinking about you as well and I hope you are able to get up and about again soon. I am also sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend...

Lots of hugs....
Sending good wishes your way!

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Posted 03 January 2008 - 06:45 PM


You've had qite a bit to deal with over the last hours. I'm very sorry about your friend. That in itself is devastating, but to come on the heels of learning that you need a further test makes it even more difficult for you.

I'll be thinking of you and please let us know how your test turns out. Take care.


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Posted 03 January 2008 - 10:40 PM

Sorry to hear you are having such a down spot at the moment, jaxs. Sorry also for the loss of your dear friend. Try to keep as positive as you can about the results of your smear. At least you are on the track of getting further information. Try and keep that positive outlook in spite of all this. Hugs to you, sweetie.
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Posted 04 January 2008 - 06:28 AM

jaxs we're always here for you. sorry to hear that you're having such a difficult time. keep strong. emmi

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Posted 04 January 2008 - 08:13 AM

Hi Jax,

Oh love, big ole hug for you! I'm really sorry about your pap and also about your friend. Please know we are here for you.

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Posted 05 January 2008 - 07:31 AM

Hi jax,

My heart goes out to you. Losing a friend, along with all that is going on... has apparently got you tied up in knots. The first place stress goes... is to the back. Hopefully, once you've been able to mourn your friend's passing... you'll be able to care for yourself. In the meantime, get the best rest possible.

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