Do I really want to know? in Sclero Forums (MAIN) Posted November 19, 2015 Hi Quiltfairy, I have decided to ask Jo to please post your quote, "I have decided to enjoy what life I can as long as I can and to not spend time worrying about what is going to happen next" for an upcoming forums banner, as that is a great idea for all of us. Probably the biggest effect that scleroderma has had on me is that it has made me more grateful for the gift of life. I take fewer things for granted and I make a much more concerted effort to really and truly enjoy every possible minute. For me, a focus on fun and laughter is not optional anymore, but absolutely essential. It defuses the stresses that are so inherent in illness before they have much of a chance to build up. So I have gradually become far more serious about having fun. LOL.