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  1. Thank you for posting this. It has the possibility of helping many people I had the chance to sit in a group of supports that had a friend or family member that committed or attempted suicide. We worked on cognitive behavior. Every time I see my therapist she ask me that question, what I learned what prompted that question. She told me that I was one of the strongest people that she had ever worked with and that I am a typlcal peson that would attempt sucide because of the illness and coming from a background of emotional abuse. So the cognitive therapy has me once again alive. There's the great saying by Phil Donahue, "Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem." I like to add that nothing is permanent. All we have to do is live today! I wish the best of luck to everyone.
  2. quiltfairy

    All of the above

    I am going to look for where a group of people lost a friend to lupus. On January 23rd they are have a bone marrow donation drive. I think that is a great thing and I saw the story on KTIV news station 4. I will look it up a little later.
  3. quiltfairy

    New question

    Thanks to the both of you. I did call my sclero doctor's nurse (my doctor at UNMC in Omaha) as he did tell me that it is in the high side of normal, but we do know I have peripheral neuropathy. He is a specialist; he not only treats scleroderma, but is the professor at the university of Nebraska. The first rheumatologist I had never had a scleroderma patients and he would not talk to me. When I started with him I was asked if it was ok for interns to be in the room; I said, how else would they learn? I only had problems with two of them; one did not have a good bed side manner, the other was really good but the only thing I had about him was that he had sores on his hands. As I look back I could have asked him to put on gloves and when I saw him the next time I was in the office, I suggested gloves. Anyway I could go on and on; doctors treat us for our illness, in return we teach them. That is how the world goes around and around. So for now I will keep all of us in my heart.
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    New question

    I know I should not worry about this blood test; most of the time I know what they are or should be. My vitamin D for the first time is normal. The one that is the most troublesome is my creatine kinase (CK) went from 36 to 78. This test was run to figure out why I am falling and why my legs feel as though I have walked 100 miles going down my hallway and back. I used to stand for a long period of time; they have started to hurt and want to go out from under me. If anyone has this problem I would appreciate to know what they did. I do have peripheral neuropathy in both legs and arms and my sclero doctor is considering that might be the problem. I just do not know why my CK would jump that much in a year. Thank you Quiltfairy
  5. quiltfairy

    Stress.

    Thank you. The comments from my family are nothing new so I just close it out. I no longer go there alone and my aunt has learned the truth. And my therapist has done a lot to help me sort all of the rubbish out. This all started as a child, I now live 70 miles away from my family. When my mom passed away I thought it would quit, but it didn't. I have a new therapist; she is great. I will call her Monday and Wednesday. When I go to see my sclero doctor my aunt will be my driver; we have a good time, I always look forward to the drive. I always tell other people with scleroderma or other diseases to see a therapist; family and friends can blow up in your face simply because a lack of understanding. I send my blessings to everyone.
  6. quiltfairy

    Stress.

    My family had a barbecue today and I was not sure I wanted to go. I asked my dad how my son was doing and he said he was okay, so we had lunch. I went outside with my brother and sister in law and we were talking about this, that and the other. My brother said that we all knew it would happen. That is when I was told he is in prison for breaking and entering. I think the judge got tired of seeing him; he had his chances and the last Chance was 15 years suspended. I will not put on here what the charges were. I got a little angry when I was told that it happened a month ago. People are starting to understand when I say I do not feel like a family member.
  7. That is funny, my grand daughter always wanted me to make new clothes for her Barbie. I finally purchased her an American girlie 18 inch doll, much wiser to sew. I have been to Chicago a number of times, mostly to the meat market. I remember the one way street; to get to the place we had to go on a wrong way as it was the only way to get there. You had to creep across the bridge coming back out or you would top out your trailer. The guy I was instructing peeled the top of the trailer back to feet; thanks to the officer, he gave the guy a written warning and it could have been a lot worse, as we both could be sitting behind bars and not the kind you drink in. Thank you for for helping to bring to back so many good thoughts. I will be thinking about you and I send you my blessings.
  8. Hi Muffintop and Keevie, I was in a high pressure job; also I drove trucks in 48 states, Canada and a little of Mexico. I really enjoyed my job; there are not many jobs that while I was driving I got to enjoy seeing the sights. I got my first million mile award back in the early eighties. In 2007 I only needed about 5000 miles to get a second award when I got a hard hit in the head, but I think I had scleroderma a few years before that. I started having trouble pushing like I need to and most people can't believe I was getting sick. In 2007 I had a steele end of a securement strap hit me on the head. It fractured my skull and broke my neck and nose. I am alive from injuries from which I should have never lived, let alone driven back from Canada to South Dakota. The fatigue was getting at me and the joint pain; my doctors did a lot of tests and I have systemic diffuse scleroderma and a list of other things. I had to get a new driver's license and now I just have a plain old license . I feel for the job you do as it must be extremely difficult. I will keep you in my thoughts. I am now disabled; I am back to quilting and making dolls clothes. The one thing I have to share is find a good therapist it helps, also a good attorney to help with disability. Now I am through I send you my blessings.
  9. I had a head injury in 2007; 11 years later I still cannot remember or know for sure. I was in Canada when it happened and it left me with a dented head, a broken nose and the doctors said it was a closed head injury. I have trouble with short term memory. I sincerely hope I don't have Parkinson's disease, I have a long enough list of medical stuff! I will keep all in my heart and thoughts.
  10. Some days I just want to lie down and do nothing; other days I do what is in front of me. Not many people know why I moved 70 miles away from family, although I do have friends that know why I stay away from the family. When I go to family stuff I can't sleep or eat. What I am getting to is how family and emotions can do things to our health. I am in a lot of pain for a week before I go. I am working with my therapist and I am thinking I am going to go to mom's grave and ask her why she would say what she said to me before I was going into surgery. Some day I will let everyone know what she said. When emotions like these pop up, find someone to talk to or it will eat away at you, although there are many happy thoughts. I hope everyone lives for the happy days and can laugh until your stomach hurts and when sad tears are healing. So I send each one
  11. When I read this article it reminded of a course that I took in Lincoln Nebraska which was just a class for older adults. The instructor took us on a fascinating journey from caveman to today; there was a book, films and pictures on of his classes and guided imagery. It was fascinating and put together good though of course confused me. Is a race improving or is the human body is breaking down or improving? This topic could could go on and on, but I don't have a genius brain and I am happy the way I am now. I will leave this to those that have the ability to do so. Thank you.
  12. quiltfairy

    My biggest fear.

    Thank you. We all have things we are afraid of; people do their best to hide them away. It is one of our most secret things that we can hold on to as our lives become out of control with scleroderma. 3 years ago my house was broken into in the middle of the night while I was peacefully dreaming. I thank the man upstairs as Tony and Mariaha woke me up. Whoever it was had left; I called 911 and it only took 45 minutes for the police to show up. That sparked another fear in my life, I check each door at least 3 times to make sure they are locked and I also leave a light or two on now. I have 2 fears and the darkness is the second. Oh, I put new locks on all the doors.
  13. quiltfairy

    My biggest fear.

    My therapist asked me about my biggest fear and so have my doctors and family. In the last few years when I was in the hospital for surgery or other stuff and two times with my neck surgery I was supposed to be in overnight, but it wound up my getting a lung infection and staying in hospital for a little over a week. Not one family member came to visit and I had to find my own way home; luckily my aunt came and got me. Now that brings me to my worst fear - it is being in a nursing home or hospital dying alone with nobody there. Now that I told you mine, I want to hear others' fears. The reason I wrote this is that it is a safe place and if you don't talk about it, it will eat at what we have. I want to live to be 100 years young. I will be thinking about all the people that write it out.
  14. quiltfairy

    Why do we panic?

    Before I was diagnosed with scleroderma I was one of those people that went to the internet and typed my symptoms in my Google search bar. I then just knew that I had at least 100 diseases and now I look back and laugh at it. Like most I found sites that had chats and I would write about all my symptoms and ask “do you think I have this?” When I went to my doctor she did a lot of blood tests and she sent me to a neurologist. He did a test that determined that I had neuropathy in both legs and arms. As a result of my blood tests, when I went to my appointment she gave me the diagnosis of scleroderma. At that point it hit me hard and then she sent me to my rheumatologist. They all said there was no cure; that was about 8 years ago.My aunt agreed we now know more than we ever wanted to know. My hope is that if you get that same illness do not panic; it is not a death sentence. Do your best to keep hope that some day the answer will come with a cure and if at times you need to cry, be my guest; it can be good to have a cleansing cry. My thoughts will go to every one.
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    This and that.

    It has been a hard year things and finally settling down. Mariaha got her new collar; one of my doctors said I should get a halter collar as it would stop her pulling so hard and we are going to take her for a walk tomorrow. My toes socks are still working. I am going to try uploading pictures. Am I the only one that was diagnosed with scleroderma after a nerve stimulus test; it took 2 weeks? Mariaha does like her new collar, but now I have a new symptom my hands are losing the ridges; some people call it losing their fingerprints, which makes it hard to hold onto her leash. I was at one of the dollar stores and I found a pair that have a leather like palms; it gives me a better grip on her leash and other items. As of the last couple of weeks my sclero wants to take over, but I am too stubborn to sit down and give in. I have a new therapist; she seems ok for now but I explained that it is going to take time for me to trust anyone from that agency. My dad will be home in a few weeks and I am going to talk to him as my van is not going to last much longer. It has a lot of miles on it; my odometer just went past 100,000 thousand miles for the second time, so I hope I can raise the money. I have two wheel chair lifts; one was given to me, the other was put into my van through a waiver, so I do not have to be concerned about that, just the cost of putting it in the new van. I hope every one had a good day and found a lot of eggs. I had better quit for now; my night meds are making me sleepy, or in the UK good morning.
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