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In Loving Memory of Eugene (Gene) Ensz

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Thanks to Shelley Ensz for her donation in loving memory of her husband, Gene, who enthusiastically served as Co-Founder and Vice President of the nonprofit International Scleroderma Network since our inception in 2002. Gene peacefully passed away on February 2, 2014, and he will be greatly missed by all. Posted 02/04/2014. (Also see: Gene Ensz and Sclero Shop/Donate)

 

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Jo Frowde

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I am very saddened to hear about the loss of Gene and send out healing thoughts to Shelley Ensz and all the members of the ISN family. 

 

miocean


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So sorry to hear that Gene has passed away and our thoughts go out to Shelley & her family at this time.

 

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Dearest Shelley,

 

My heart goes out to you, as you and your family mourn the loss of Gene; May you feel comforted in knowing he is at peace....

 

I know you miss him terribly, but am also sure you have wonderful memories of your special life shared together.

 

Much Love to You

 

Susie


Special Hugs,

 

Susie Kraft

ISN Support Specialist

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International Scleroderma Network (ISN)

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Dear Shelley

 

There are some things we should never have to read, in loving memory followed by our loved one's name is such a thing. No one could doubt that you and Gene had an extraordinary life together. 

 

Love from me & Michael


Amanda Thorpe

ISN Sclero Forums Senior Support Specialist

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(Retired) ISN Sclero Forums Assistant Manager

(Retired) ISN Email Support Specialist

International Scleroderma Network (ISN)

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Dearest Shelley,

 

I was so very sorry when I heard the sad news of Gene's passing and all our thoughts are with you and your family at this time. 

 

Much love to you,


Jo Frowde

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Dear Shelley ,

 

I obviously haven't checked in for a while.  I am so sorry and saddened to read that Gene passed away.  You and your family will be in my thoughts.

 

Do take care,

Margaret

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Oh Shelley, what a blow~ please know that the hearts of all of us who you have touched via the ISN go out to you. Love always, Jeannie


Jeannie McClelland

(Retired) ISN Director of Support Services

(Retired) ISN Sclero Forums Manager

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Oh my - tonight was the first time I've been here in a couple of years and this is what I see first. Oh Shelley, I just want to give you a huge hug right now and not let go! This is truly heartbreaking and my thoughts are with you Darlin. I'll be calling you within the next few days.

 

Lots and lots of hugs, Janey


Janey Willis

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Sending deepest condolences to Shelley and her family at this sad time. Gene will be missed by many.

Love and Thanks for all he did.

Debbie

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Shelley,

I am so very sorry for the loss of Gene… May you be wrapped in the warmth of the many wonderful memories

Marsha

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Thanks to the following people for their donation in loving memory of Gene Ensz, who enthusiastically served as Co-Founder and Vice President of the nonprofit International Scleroderma Network since our inception in 2002: Shelley Ensz and Janet Paulmenn. Posted 03/04/2014. (Also see: Gene Ensz and Sclero Shop/Donate)


Jo Frowde

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Shelley,

I think about you and Gene often and hope that you are full of happy memories. I know you are grateful for every moment and made the best of each and every day.

 

Here are some  :spoon:  :spoon:  :spoon:  to help you through these times.

 

:emoticon-hug:

 

miocean


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My Condolences to you, Shelley and your family. 

 

I want to thank You and Gene for creating this loving spot for us.  It has been a source of strength and hope for me and so many many others.  What a fantastic legacy for Gene.

 

Kathy


Diffuse Scleroderma Diagnosed March 2009

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Thanks to the following people for their donation in loving memory of Gene Ensz, who enthusiastically served as Co-Founder and Vice President of the nonprofit International Scleroderma Network since our inception in 2002: Amanda Thorpe, Shelley Ensz, Janet Paulmenn, and Margaret Roof. Posted 04/11/2014. (Also see: Gene Ensz and Sclero Shop/Donate)


Jo Frowde

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Shelley,

Very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.

Helen

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I want to thank everyone for their kind condolences and sympathies and thoughts, from the bottom of my heart. 

 

Many of you know that Gene and I worked side by side for many years in running the ISN.  Occasionally, he would finish up his work a few minutes before me, but he was so thoughtful that he would still sit at our desk, reading his book, just to keep me company.  He ran everything behind the scenes so it is taking some doing for me to get up to speed on them.

 

But one thing I want to mention is his legacy of happiness.  He was just about the happiest person you've ever met!  He greeted every day with joy in his heart and always had extra smiles to give to everyone he encountered. He was incredibly ill the last six months of his life (so many serious things wrong nobody could hardly believe it all), but his attitude never faltered. Even on his very last day, the nurse asked him how he was feeling, did he want any pain medication?  And he replied, no, that's fine, that he was feeling, "Marvelous!"

 

We had a lot of time to ponder the inevitable, of course. He kept insisting that he just wanted me to be happy, come what may.  For the longest time I really wondered how that would be possible, without him.  Then I remembered his frequent saying, that happiness is a decision.

 

And I must say, under the circumstances, it was very hard for me to make the decision to still be happy, once he passed away.  That sort of decision requires a lot of work, as well.  I had to very diligently work on my attitude, examining every thought to see if it was helpful and happiness-sustaining, or not.  I had to take very good care of myself, and not so easy since he was my primary caregiver!  But self-pity over that wasn't going to help me, either.

 

I can't say this has been a walk in the park, and I wouldn't wish the circumstances of grief upon anyone. But I can say that now things have settled down, and my overwhelming feelings are gratitude for having the great good luck to have 33 years, 3 months, 2 weeks, 1 day and 15 minutes with one of the most fabulous men to ever grace the planet earth.  I have been blessed with love and more happiness than most people have ever known.

 

I know everyone here also feels sad about his passing. I am sorry for your experience of loss and sadness in this as well. But what he wanted most, for each and every one of us, was for us to be happy.  And to make the decision to be happy, regardless of our circumstances in life and despite all our losses and hurts.

 

So now, you don't need to worry about walking on eggshells around me. It is okay, even helpful, to joke around and get back to the issues that concern all of us.  And really, a few jokes wouldn't even hurt to get our groove back again.  I know how it is to think, oh, I shouldn't mention my little concern in the face of something so much more serious.  Hogwash.  If you so much as stub your baby toe, we want to hear about it . . . and besides, Gene would have been among the first to make a joke about it, too!

 

:emoticons-group-hug:


Warm Hugs,

 

Shelley Ensz

Founder and President

International Scleroderma Network (ISN)

Hotline and Donations: 1-800-564-7099

 

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