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kramer57

Sad News, My Mom Passed Away

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Good morning everybody. I've been absent from the forum for a few weeks. My mother passed away unexpectedly on Mar 25. It was a huge shock, she was only 62 and hadn't complained of feeling sick or anything. My husband found her unconscious in her room (we live with her), we did CPR and called 911, they took her to the hospital ICU but it was too late.

For a while I didn't feel like coming here. This used to be my morning ritual - I get up early, so I'd get on the computer in the mornings before Mom woke up, then she could have it later in the day. I was just too sad to be here for a while, because it was the "normal" thing to do, and nothing is normal anymore. It's like, for a while, having Scleroderma was the biggest thing in my life. Then mom died, and Scleroderma didn't matter anymore, I wasn't even thinking about it. Now I'm back to thinking about it again I guess.

Anyway it's nice to be back - I missed you all.

Karen

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Hi Karen,

 

I am so sorry to hear about your mother. I can only imagine what a shocker that must have been for you and your husband and how empty the house must feel now. Please know that you are in my thoughts. I am glad that you are back posting....we missed you!

 

Warm wishes,

Heidi

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Karen, I am so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. Just to let you know we are here for you. Take care, Sam


Sam

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Karen,

I am sorry to hear about your Mom's passing and know you must be very sad at losing her, especially so suddenly. It really does put things in perspective. I'm glad you're feeling better and are back to posting. My thoughts are with you.


ISN Artist

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Karen,

 

So sorry to hear your sad news. Keep your family close in your time of sadness.

Lean on each other. And you can lean on us too.

 

May your happy memories of time with your mom fill the hole in your heart.

 

Best wishes,

Barefut


Take care,

Barefut

 

Serena Justis

ISN Blogger

International Scleroderma Network (ISN)

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Karen,

I was so sorry to read of your mother's sudden death. She was young. I know that you must really miss her. I lost my dad in the fall and it was really hard. It was a blessing because he had been so ill. For you to have it happen so unexpectedly makes it a lot harder. I will have you and your family in my thoughts.

Nan

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Karen,

Lots of virtual hugs being sent to you right now. I'm so sorry to hear about your mother. She was young and since she hadn't complained about anything, I'm sure it was quite a shock. I'm glad to see you back on the board. You know you can get lots of emotional support here. My thoughts and sympathies.

 

I hope you can feel our hugs,

Janey


Janey Willis

ISN Support Specialist

(Retired) ISN Assistant Webmaster

(Retired) ISN News Director

(Retired) ISN Technical Writer for Training Manuals

International Scleroderma Network (ISN)

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Karen,

Oh dear, I am really sorry that your Mom has passed away. I hope you can be around your family right now and find some peace.

Just let yourself cry, and come to the board if you need some release.

Jennifer

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Hi Karen,

 

I'm really sorry to hear about your mom. I know how earth shattering that can be. I lost my mother to cancer at a young again of 59. I also lost my dad to cancer, he died when he was only 49. My heart goes out to you. I know how hard it is to deal with this type of loss and I also know how long it can take to heal.....if you ever really do.

 

Glad to see you back, don't push yourself however.


Warm and gentle hugs,

 

Pamela

ISN Support Specialist

International Scleroderma Network (ISN)

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Hi Karen,

 

I am so sorry. My thoughts will be with you.


Your Friend,

 

Gi Gi

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Dear Karen,

I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom. You and your family will be in my thoughts...

Hugs~

Carrie


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I'm am so sorry for your loss. Your mother seemed very young, so it must be even more painful for all of you. Hopefully you will be able to find some support here on the forum.


Warm wishes,

Jefa

 

Carrie Maddoux

(Retired)ISN Sclero Forums Support Specialist

(Retired)ISN Sclero Forums UK Chat Host

International Scleroderma Network (ISN)

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Karen,

I am sorry for your loss. Glad though that you decided to come back and join us. Hopefully, some of our words will give you the needed strength you need each day to pick up the pieces and enjoy everything around you that was your mothers. Special moments or gifts to each other throughout the years. Sheryl


Strength and Warmth,

Sheryl

 

Sheryl Doom

ISN Support Specialist

(Retired) ISN Chat Moderator

International Scleroderma Network (ISN)

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Karen,

 

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. You can't replace a mother, and we tend to think they will always be there, as they have been since we were born. So it's a great shock when this sort of thing happens.

 

As others have said, remember the happy times you shared, and eventually the pain will lessen a little, but you will never forget her.

 

Warm hugs,

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Karen, I am so sorry your mom has passed away. My thoughts are with you.

 

jude

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Dear Karen,

 

I am so sorry to hear about your mother passing away.

Please know we are always thinking of you, and send you hugs of love and support right now.

 

hugs,

Irene

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Hi Karen,

I'm so sorry to hear of your mothers sudden passing. I lost my mum when I was 19 years old and am still not over it 19 years later.

Take care and know that you are in my thoughts and try and take one day at time and you will get through this.

 

Kind regards

Celia

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Dear Karen,

My thoughts are with you and your family. I'm so sorry that you've lost your mom at such a young age and so unexpectedly. May you find comfort in your memories...I will be thinking of you.

 

xoxo emmie

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Thank you everybody for all your kind words and support. I'm blessed with a wonderful husband, supportive and loving family, and you - I'm glad I don't have to go through it alone. Mom and I had a good relationship so I'm holding on to my memories of her and trying to make her proud of how I'm handling everything.

Karen

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Hi Karen,

Please know that my thoughts are with you and your family. I am sure your mom is very proud of you! Hold on to those memories and remember the good times....

 

We are all here for you!

 

Hugs,

Lisa


Lisa Bulman

(Retired) ISN/SCTC List Coordinator

(Retired) ISN Sclero Forums Assistant Manager

(Retired) ISN Assistant News Guide

(Retired) ISN Fundraiser

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Karen,

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

 

ErinF

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Dear Karen,

My heart goes out to you... I hope the healing comes through the special memories you have of your mom. It' so wonderful you and she shared the closeness in your relationship... with that, I have no doubt about her pride... and love for you.

Please know, we're here and will be keeping you in our thoughts.

 

Soft Hugs, Susie


Special Hugs,

 

Susie Kraft

ISN Support Specialist

ISN Chat Host

International Scleroderma Network (ISN)

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Karen,

 

My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I cannot imagine what you must be going through. This forum is a wonderful place to heal.

 

Hugs.

 

Kathi

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